Becoming Us:

A Premarital Couples Intensive

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Becoming Us: A Premarital Couples Intensive

Design the marriage you want—together.

Becoming Us is a focused premarital intensive that helps you and your partnerintentionally create the k ind of relationship you want to build—not just for your wedding day, but for the life that follows.

Whether you’re recently engaged or preparing for long-term commitment, this experience offers the space, tools, and guidance to deepen your connection and lay a solid, personalized foundation for your future together.

In this intensive, you’ll:

  • Strengthen communication and emotional safety
  • Explore values, expectations, and long-term vision
  • Learn how to navigate conflict with empathy and skill
  • Deepen intimacy and mutual understanding
  • Actively design the kind of marriage you both want to create—from day one

This format is ideal for couples who:

  • Are engaged or seriously considering long-term commitment
  • Want to feel more confident and aligned before marriage
  • Have busy schedules and prefer a time-efficient alternative
  • Are navigating complex dynamics (e.g., blending families, past relationship baggage, cultural/religious differences)
  • Value intentional, proactive work to strengthen their partnership
  • May have already done some premarital work, but want a deeper or more personalized experience

How much does the Becoming Us Premarital Intensive cost?​

The full Becoming Us intensive is $1,480.

A 50% nonrefundable deposit is required to reserve the dates. Balance is due on assessment day.

This includes:

  • Two three-hour intensive sessions
  • Customizable scheduling (weekends may be available for upcharge)
  • Relationship assessment
  • Tailored guidance, skill-building exercises, and take-home resources
  • Follow-up integration session, after the intensive